Death of A friendship

Friendship.. such a beautiful thing.. but have you ever been broken apart by someone who you thought was your closest friend? Did your friendship just end overnight and you don't have a clue why? Are you trying as much as you can to find out what went wrong? Are you still hoping that there's a chance for you two to get back along? Does your head and heart keep wondering why? why? why?...



Daijoubu..Its just like how Darren sings If you need to fall apart, I can mend a broken heart, If you need to crash then crash and burn, You're not alone.. :)

Here's a poem I came across today, to know that many people out there are going through similar things and to know that you are not alone in this world, that we are here to support and lift each other up from the fall.. :)


Your letters seem like form letters
I get in the mail.
I try not to let it bother me
but my feelings are quite frail.

No salutation
No how do you do,
No real ending
or what is happening with you?

So much that has happened.
All now forever in the past.
I tried again to write to you,
but how much longer can it last?

I try to keep my letters upbeat,
doing my best to not complain.
I talk about other things
the leaves, the wind, the rain.

Did it really mean that much
or was I just unaware?
I tried my best to be a friend
but you do not seem to care.

I felt we had a bond
I shared with you my pain.
Then when I had to ask a favor
right away I felt a strain.

I had broken one of your rules
and I did not even know.
Something came up
and you would not let go.

So now the bond is broken
and I must move on.
The pain is real, it hurts so much
For the death of a friendship that has now gone.

It shouldn't end this way...

by Brenda Sparkman






Accepting that its really over will free you from all the negative feelings inside you.. Don't try to pretend that it doesn't matter to you or is not hurting you or you are totally fine with it. Let all your feelings out.. do not keep them bottled inside and put a brave front on the outside..Let this experience in your life run its course.. Let it prepare you to be a greater person for the future :)

Pass this on to all your friends :) Let this help our friends out there who are going through a tough time..

With lots of hope and encouragement, Sakura :)